Idea: send me your number on anon. We text for two days, no name, no picture, just talking. We see if we’d be friends from getting to know one another. On day three you send me a picture and your name.
Stop putting yourself down or downplaying your greatness. Don’t be surprised if someone finds you attractive. You need to be thinking why the hell they wouldn’t? If you don’t champion yourself who the hell else will?